When two families blend, partners often have different hopes, dreams, and expectations. For example, one may have a cherished holiday tradition they can’t live without, and the other may have ideas of their own. Most couples wait too long to talk about the things that matter to them, but therapy can help you be more proactive, so you can avoid common problems.

Art by Nick Lowry. Located in Christchurch, New Zealand.

The role of the stepparent is hard to understand unless you’ve experienced it. Even under the best of circumstances, being a stepparent can be challenging, sometimes painful, and often isolating, especially if you don’t have children of your own. There are many ways to be a healthy, happy stepparent, but it can help to have support while you find what works for you.

Artist Unknown. Located in San Francisco, California.

When your partner is actively coparenting with an ex, it can feel like the ex is always looking over your shoulder. Alternatively, you may be coparenting with your ex and wishing your partner would be more understanding. This dynamic can be hard for everyone. Whether the relationship is cordial or not, therapy can help everyone set boundaries and adjust to the new normal.

Artist Unknown. Located in Montréal, Canada.